Once I belonged to a sorority where we had secret sisters. One gift I received was a kitchen whisk with a red ribbon tied around the handle, straw inside in the bottom of it, two plastic eggs on the straw and a plastic penguin holding the "bars" like it was in jail. I thought the gal I'd received it from was a young, poor, somewhat simple member of our group, so I joked about the tacky gift with one of my good friends. On Revealing Day I discovered that my good friend, who'd listened to me call the gift tacky, was actually my secret sister. Let's just say that my head started buzzing and people were staring at me as I turned very white, then very red. Luckily my good friend is still a good friend. I also learned that day that it doesn't matter what the gift is if you love the giver and know that it was given with good intentions. Too many of the 17 pages of stories I've read tonight here were insensitive or malicious gifts and I'm sorry for all of you who were on the receiving end... best wishes to all of you for a happy, healthy rest of your lives.