What's wrong with me?

[Bammony]

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I think we both have the same thing. I have to get past this soon though or go into hiding until spring because I'm just plain cranky to alot of people around me. I really need to stop.

 

[debilorrah]

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That sucks. I hate it when people are rude. You always have me Debi and I just love you to death. You're too funny.

I love you guys too!!! I just thought it was strange is all. Weird.

 

[thechickenchick]

While I go through it for a few days here and there, my DH can go for weeks or longer at a time. Last winter was ALMOST unbearable. I love him with all my heart. It was awful to see him go through that. He just kept saying it was all in MY head!

So far this winter is better.

He was so argumenitive and always wanted to be gone. The things we would normally do as a family or a couple he was insisting on going alone. Even picking fights, then blaming it on me so he could leave! Drove me nuts, short drive though really!!

When I get down I am usually just quiet, solem and in bed earlier than usual. I feel worse than this but this is what shows.


Oh and I love you to Debiraymond. I can always count on you to be here (and funny) somewhere!!! Silly question? Is raymond your last name? That is my sons first name.

 

[Bammony]

I'm kinda afraid of anti-depressants. Not sure if I even need them. I just need to get outside and get moving and see my husband.......I think.

 

[Louise2]

Hormonal maybe? I know I feel like that every three weeks or so. Try to recognise a pattern. Its easier if you recognise it for what it is and know that the whole world hasnt turned into a nasty cold heartless place and people who you thought loved you havnt turned into insensative, ignorant, selfish slobs!!!!!!!!!!! . Have a beer and ride it through, I am.

Ps Excuse the spelling, beer, you understand

 

[Bammony]

Now that, makes sense! Definitely could be hormones.

 

[chickenmum]

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Taking a bath would be fun?

 

[Bammony]

I had a girl's day out yesterday with a really close friend. We did a whole lot of nothing and I loved every second of it. No kids. No men. I laughed all day long. I needed her and yesterday so bad. What a great day! I feel a little better this morning than I have been.

 

[ksacres]

I know this is going to sound really really strange, but go to a tanning salon.

three to five minutes, twice a week is great (in their lowest pressure bed) for lifting the spirits. It's warm, feels like the sun, and you might develope the minutest hint of skin color.

I generally only "tan" in a box in wintertime. Your body produces Vit D from the "fake" sun too.

Supposedly, your body can make all the vitamin D it needs from 5 minutes a day in natural sunlight. That would equate to about a minute a day in the tanning bed.

Sunlight and UV rays are good for you in moderation.

 

[thechickenchick]

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Taking a bath would be fun?

For me it is just a way of shutting out the world. To me it is an indulgence because it means I am not doing any thing for any one else. The door is locked, candles lit, my ipod with MY music, and a glass of wine or 2! I love it! However anything that gives you that just for me feeling is wonderful therapy!

ksacres I think the tanning idea is a great one. My Mom had one in her basement and used just for that.

Bamommy I am so glad you had such a great time! Now, go do it again... soon!