My choice would be...
An Australorp, friendly, calm, great egg layers of big brown eggs (can you tell I love mine?
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A Barred Rock. Great egg layers, and the ones I've had have been pretty and friendly.
A Faverolle They are just so darned cute with those fluffy faces.
A black sex-link, know it's not on your list, but they have been some of the friendliest and most reliable layers I've ever had.
An Orpington, never had one, but have never heard anything bad about them.
And an EE, just to add some color. Their personalities vary, but the color range is worth a possibly grumpy hen.
If you can, I'd add a Phoenix roo, just to have something pretty roaming around the yard. I love my guy, he's great with the ladies. Had a naughty spell once, but is not mean at all.