When I try to pick up mt goose Gwen a 3 1/2 week old seebie she screams like I'm killing her. It's one of those pierce curdling screams that makes you jump. What's wrong? i'm I picking her up wrong? I've tried several different ways. letting her feet dangle, scooping her so her feet don't dangle. sitting her in my lap and standing up. HELP i want to be able to hold my girl.