Well, I would say I officially (I have thought so, but have been second guessing my thinking as of late) have 2 toms and one hen. Dinner, obviously a tom, Banshee a tom, and Tomahawk a hen.
She will hold her legs in (thanks for the link R2Elk), has slightly thinner legs, and you can barely notice the lighter coloring on the edge of her feathers (thanks again to R2).
Lately, I have been second guessing my original thoughts that she was a hen. She has been strutting and getting all red lately. I thought for sure she was a late bloomer and I had 3 toms with the amount of fighting I have had around here.
Banshee had her completely pinned down (not on top of her, but biting her neck and pushing her face in the ground) all while she was screaming. Then she fought back and was all puffed up and flappy with her wings. Maybe a mating thing? I don't have a clue.
It happened more than once and I was worried there was a male pecking order thing happening. There is a lot of that with Dinner and Banshee.
Anyhow, glad to have some extra assurance!
Memphis- My babies are lap turkeys too! They have been coming to snuggle at night when I sit on the deck with my wine and enjoy the cool and quiet. Both Tomahawk and Banshee come jump up for snuggles. Banshee has taken to grooming me. He likes to gently preen my "feathers". If my hair is down (it is long) he will sort it all out like he does his feathers. It cracks me up.
Aurora- Maybe you can still call her Adam. I had a hen named Clyde once...
Also, Tomahawk and Banshee's names, I feel, are reversed. But they know them, so I am not going to switch them at this point.