Am I crazy? *long rant/vent*

Coming from someone who has just recently moved to the country, i would definitley recommend it. My kids are ds,12 and dd, 10.

Although we moved to a bigger house, they love it here. It is true that we spend most of our time outside. the kids play in the ditch across the road, catching tadpoles and minnows, and using their imaginations. They have fun taking care of all the animals. All of our kids' friends come over here to play, b/c there is so much to do. They shoot their bb guns whenever they want, ride dirtbikes, climb trees, have camp fires. We have a trampoline in our workshop that they can used year round. Our TV hasnt been on in over two months.

It's true that there is more work to be done around here, and they can't just go off down the street to play whenever they want (which imo is good) Grass needs cutting, hay need to be brought into the barn, stalls need to be cleaned out etc. My kids are developing a very good work ethic, and they are also learning where their food comes from. And if we want something, we need to wrk for it. (we recently put up horse fence, that all four us us worked on.

We have been here nine months, and thought my son would have a hard go of it. Ask them today where they would rather live, and hands down they both say the country, having experienced both 'subdivision life and country life. I know this for a fact, b/c we asked them on the weekend as we sat around the campfire roasting weenies.

From a parents perspective, i like it so much better b/c when they do go into town, I know where they are going, who they are with, b/c i have to drop them off there, and I have another parent also being accountable for them, as oppposed to just going down the street to the park to see who they can find to play with.

Even if we hadda moved to a smaller house, I think the transition would have been just as smooth. we spend more time as a family out here than we ever did in town, which was somethng else I wanted too.
 
You know what's really sad -- I'm no where near a city -- this used to be the country.
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We have right at an acre of land here (not a lot, but more than most of the newer subdivisions) and some people have more in our neighborhood. Horses are allowed (no one has any at the moment, but they're allowed.) The problem is that we're close enough to Raleigh, with an interstate that makes the commute about 30 minutes, that it seems like everyone and their grandma has moved here. The farmers have almost all sold their land to developers and there are businesses developing at every intersection. Why do we need a Wal-Mart every 5 miles anyway? And why do we need a CVS and a Walgreens on opposite sides of the road?
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I think our area is what people call "urban sprawl." Whatever it's called, I hate it.
 
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I would move into the country in a heartbeat! My kids even want to get out of town. They have friends... but most of their friends aren't right in town anyhow. I might get some crying and complaining if I move them to a new school district... but otherwards they're all for it. Have you talked about the idea of moving with your kids? Their thoughts on the matter might surprise you!

DH and I have come to the realization that kids get bored just as easily regardless of where they live.... the only difference is the KIND of trouble they get into when they try to cure their boredom. We'll be heading to the country first chance we get!!!!
 
* YOU MAY be having a mid-life crisis-- but it still sounds like a good idea to me. Only thing is you CAN get claustrophobic and over-cramped in a mobile in a hurry. Still remember my then 8 yr old bro crying over not having the room to set up his matchbox cars track in the dead of winter.
 
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My kids grew up on our farm 10 miles from town. They were never bored because until they were old enough to help their dad with the farm work they were always out poking around and using their imaginations. I'm sure the 15 year old will be the hardest to convince, but the 10 and 7 year olds will love it. Yes, they missed out on riding their bikes to the pool or over to a friends house, but in the long run they were much better off. I say go for it.
 
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Sounds like my subdivision, especially the rentals. I can say I wish I'd made the move years ago. But my kids are grown and gone. Now, at age 59, I've bought 5 acres out in the sticks. It has a mobile on it that's not worth saving, but I'm going to buy another to put there.

It sounds like a good time to downsize the house and increase the property. It won't be many years until you only have 2 kids still home.

I'm glad my daughter and son-in-law own 40 acres. Their son is growing up with dogs, cats, chickens, pigs and now they're talking goats.

Your kids may resent the move at first, especially the 15 year old, but they'll survive. Get them interested in 4-H or FFA. They may love living in the country.

Summer is always the best time to relocate.
 
If you're crazy then I am, too!

I am 37 years old (almost 38). My youngest graduates from high school this month and my oldest graduated last year. We live in a city with a big yard by city standards (3/4 of an acre...
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). Our house is about 2100 square feet and I want to have more, by having less. We are actively seeking out acreage with a small home and some outbuildings so that we can start a farm.

It's kind of funny... I was raised in the country and ran to the city to escape from the quiet after high school. Now, all I can think about is how I can get back to the country and get my sanity and peace and quiet back!
 
Move... move.... move!

We moved from a really nice large house to a smaller, modular house that sucks. Well, the house is just made really poorly and is falling apart because of the manufacturer using poor quality products.

Guess what? I LOVE IT!!! You couldn't drag me back to a bigger, nicer house. I will live in a much smaller space inside to have the much larger space outside. I have the best barn in the world and lots of space with no neighbors that can see into our house.

Our kids love it here, we love it here; we have animals and can see the stars at night because there are no lights anywhere. It's wonderful.

Yes, we have to make the effort to get our kids and their friends together. It's so well worth it to have them living out here and not in town.

I say .. Go for it ... I truly don't believe you'll regret it.
 
Just got off the phone with DH. I told him that I needed prayer today because I'm kind of blue over the house/land that I want. He said, "there it is right there, the house/land that you WANT." I said, "okay then, the house/land that I NEED."
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He is not an outside or yard person in the least. I am, so much so that I do all of the lawn mowing (teenager does the trim work) because I love doing it, it's relaxing to me. I have planted every single tree that is in this yard (about 50.) DH doesn't enjoy being outside so he just doesn't understand my NEED... okay... DESIRE
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for more land, and I doubt that he ever will. Sigh.
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My hubby couldn't have cared one way or the other. He was happy in town, but he is happier now... that said, I had to bug him for years (10 years) and now we are finally here, and he is happy.

he originally thought that hewould have to take care of the animals, yard, etc, plus work his job. He's pleasantly surprised at the fact that the kids and I tend to the animals, and the kids take care of the yard. of course, he did have to put up the fence, but with our help. My thoughts are--i am a stay at home mom, and the kids are in school. this is my job, and the best job to have is one that you love. he loves his job, and he gets to come home to a happy wife, a neat home, andonly has to spend time with the animals if he wants to.

Best decision we made!
 

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