I know what you're saying, but its really not like that. My daughter would hang out on the fence and he'd be outside, they would talk about the ducks and chickens, he told her he had ducks before, that he just loved them, etc. He had the little music box in his trunk of his car, and gave it to her there. He has never been rude to me or my hubby, or any of the kids,etc. Its just what I have heard from this friend that has me quite suspicious, thats all. Shortly after we moved in here, my daugther and I were out walking our 2 great danes, and he started talking to me about them, for like maybe 5 mins at least. I don't know, but why would THIS person say, that they "ducks, chickens" are pooping all over the place, etc. unless he was the one looking over my fence. My birds don't ever leave the yard, and I couldn't see the neighbor coming across the street to look through my fence?