We're doing the traditional meal this year. My husband isn't a turkey fan, and I love it, so it's the only time of the year I get to eat it. Yummmm, turkey sandwiches! But we have done the not traditional at DH's family - prime rib, ham or lamb there.
Sometimes I wish we had moved away from our families. I love them to pieces, but every year it feels like we're pulled in different directions. My mom and her "They always get you for the holidays" (untrue). DH's family is just if you wanna come, great, if not that's fine too. It's the same crap at Christmas.
We're skipping town next year for Thanksgiving.