I have to side with Laney on this one. Kids deserve to know the truth, and making excuses for Grandma or pretending that she's just a little quirky would stick in my craw. I had this same kind of situation with my father, so I explained to my son that Grandpa was a bit of a loon, and his negative, nasty behavior had nothing to do with anything DS had said or done. Doing anything less would have been "covering" for Dad's unacceptable behavior, and it prevented DS from feeling that he was to blame.
Kathy, Bellville TX
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Kathy, Bellville TX
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