YES!! Someone I can agree with on man buns! I imagine it's easier to get really super long dreadlocks. Though, I would also imagine that they would get heavy faster. I know how much hair I lose every day and can't imagine if that was all still just stuck in there adding weight!my hair(dreadlocks) is down past my knees and I have no plan to cut it. i refuse to put my hair in a bun.. Nothing worse than a manbun / I just keep my hair in a hat unless im sitting around relaxing or going out , if i dont i get it caught in everything.

. I say go get a wig (and maybe make it blond or grey (like your MIL's real hair) and surprise them at a family gatherin. That'll give'em somethin to talk about...gossips...that will give everybody in the family somethin to talk about and when they ask you what you were thinkin you can say a coupla people in the family didn't seem to care for the long hair so you were tryin out the wig to see how short you wanna go! Guaranteed other family members will nip this in the "bun"......
