Take Iraq as an example. Was it quieter under Saddam Hussein than it is now? We might not like his methods but they seem to be more the norm than democracy in the Middle East. Let them get on with it. The victors will still sell the oil.
Surely you don't believe the propaganda that claims Western attacks on Middle Eastern and other Muslim countries are intended primarily to make a better country for their citizens. They're intended to oust dictators who are beyond their sell by date for the West and ensure that remote influence over oil and militarily strategic territories remains secure. It's a strategy that seems to be only partially successful. Even the gullible and malleable Thai government is unimpressed by NASA's claim that it would establish only a weather station at U-Tapao is the full story.
Vietnam veterans will remember that U-Tapao was used as a base for Agent Orange bombing runs during the Vietnam War.