Okay, my family and I just got back from Cheryl's place and WOW!!! Seriously, WOW!!!
She's got the most beautiful house, backyard, coop, etc. and is the most amazing hostess. She mentioned they've hosted large weddings there and I believe it.
Her place is a little bit off the beaten path, but I think that adds to the feel of the event. I seriously think we should have this at her house... especially if nothing else is lined up. It's a pretty easy drive from most of the Bay Area.
There definitely isn't a way to please everyone 100%, but I think her location would accommodate most of those in the SF Bay Area.
Either way, the sooner we are 100% solid on the date, time, & place we can work on drumming up interest and people can plan accordingly.