I have been remiss in letting y'all know how much help I have. I don't know what I would do without my #1 helper, Melissa. She is my 24-yo granddaughter. You may have seen me refer to her as my GC, my GirlChild. My DH and I have raised her since she was 10. She's on disability for a range of emotional and physical issues, the result of years of foster care. She takes amazing care of me, bringing me breakfast and pretty much running the household now that I can't, cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc. She even does a lot of the grocery shopping and cares for the chickens and dogs the best she can. For this DH and I pay her a small salary each week to supplement her disability.
Then there's DH himself, who truly has the heart of a servant. Though he's 70 yo, he's still working so he's gone all day. But when he's home, he's very solicitous, always wanting to do little things for me and make sure I'm comfortable. Do I need anything to eat or drink? Am I warm enough? Would I like a snack, etc. If I need to go anywhere, to the hospital, the clinic, a dr appt., he takes off from work and takes me.
So you see I have nothing to complain about!

