Good Morning Guys! Thanks for your support!
I feel a little better today, but I still need to have a long talk with my boss. I will try to explain to where it makes sense.
Our radio station is sponsoring the North Missouri State Final for the Colgate Country Showdown. I have put a lot of hard work into the last 3 local showdowns and busted my butt to get the state final here this year. One of our employees wanted to enter her daughter into a local show with another station (she is not eligible here) so precious Chelsey could compete here. Rochelle asked a few months ago for me to check if she would be eligible for the state show here. So, I call the folks in Nashville that I am working with and they say "No, because your station bought the show it would not be fair." Okay, I totally agree and pass on the news. Well, last Friday Rochelle entered darling into a show about 45 minutes away, she won and they are now looking forward to competing here (no she never listens). I tell the boss Saturday night after our local show that I am obligated to call the nice people in Nashville so they are aware of the problem and can get some stations changed around so she can go to the South Mo. show. I get to work yesterday and the boss had sent a whiny, begging e-mail to Nashville wanting her to compete here and her Mother ran around here all day yesterday saying she was going to fight it and get it changed. Drove me crazy all day! Anyway, what it comes down to is that the Nashville people changed their minds and say she can compete because we are not supplying judges. I ask them "don't you think the other contestants will think it is unfair?" they told me they would address anything like that when it comes up. I said you are darned right you will!
My problem with the situation is not Chelsey, she just has "one of those mothers" and didn't even tell her there would be a problem. She not that good either, but not bad either. My problem is, 1) Don't ask me to check if you aren't going to follow the rules anyway 2) They both went behind my back to get the rule changed and 3) I think people will think that she gets special privilege because her mom works here. They don't know how the whole show is set up.
So, with that said, after all the hard work I have put into it, I will step down and hand over whatever work I have done on it to the boss and he can pass it on to Rochelle or whoever he chooses to take it over. Problem being, no one else will do it. But, not my problem now and I am not taking the flack for it. I am not defending something I don't believe in myself and I am not going to be under minded the next 6 weeks trying to get the details finished.
Sorry it is so long and hope you can kinda understand where I am coming from. If I am being totally off here, please let me know. I have struggled with it for 2 days now and I am totally miserable and hurt.