BYC Café

[Mtn Margie]

Good morning! Warm and Windy! 50F and 80mph!

 

[pennyJo1960]

Good morning Cafe. The wind can sure howl here also live in temperate valley, just before the foothills. 30 to 50 Mph winds. No active rain cells just now.

 

[aart]

Sure wish I could clear more snow before the heat/rain wave.
The most critical places are good and I am just out of steam.

 

[Sally PB]

The most critical places are good and I am just out of steam.

Sometimes you just do what you can do.

 

[DobieLover]

I got a call from the Hearth when I was at work this morning and in a nutshell, they're kicking DH out because he's too far declined to meet their standards so he has to get moved into a nursing home.

 

[pennyJo1960]

I got a call from the Hearth when I was at work this morning and in a nutshell, they're kicking DH out because he's too far declined to meet their standards so he has to get moved into a nursing home.

How is that ? Did the suggest a nursing home at least?
How fast does all this happen ?

 

[LaFleche]

Good evening Cafe!

I just finished cooking some pumpkin soup. It is still hot, so have a nice bowl of this wonderful comfort food to keep you warm

 

[LaFleche]

I got a call from the Hearth when I was at work this morning and in a nutshell, they're kicking DH out because he's too far declined to meet their standards so he has to get moved into a nursing home.

But he just settled in after moving there...?

 

[LaFleche]

Obviously, I missed a lot of what was and is going on here at the Cafe during the last few months.

But my DH suffered a stroke at the end of September which kept me busy on overdrive with no time left for BYC or similar. He is just recently back at home and we are still busy readjusting our home for the new requirements and getting used to our new routine including lots of special stroke rehab training etc.

 

[DobieLover]

How is that ? Did the suggest a nursing home at least?
How fast does all this happen ?

I already have a place I want him to go to and have left a message there.
If I can't find a place to accept him in 30 days, they have to extend to another 30 days to give me more time. But what I don't like is them telling me I have to apply to five different places and basically accept the first place that can take him. That's not going to happen.

But he just settled in after moving there...?

But every single time I've moved him it causes him to make another decline that he doesn't recover from and this move is going to happen the same way. Something tells me that that longevity calculator is going to be right on the money when it said he's probably only going to live another 2 to 4 years.

But my DH suffered a stroke at the end of September

And more big hugs for you and your DH.