No worries NFC, DH like his a little lighter than I do. (Being nice) I call it coff-tea ( if you can see through the it it is not coffee IMHO) DS asked the other day? " am I up in time for coffee?" I said yes he then said " no I meant coffee, not coff-tar!"
He turned my sarcasm against me.
Gotta love a man with a sense of humor!

He turned my sarcasm against me.
It used to irritate me when my doctor would say, "Well, you're not 25 anymore." He's right. I rearranged things a bit. Started sleeping a bit longer, and stopped looking in the mirror. I'm a control freak and tend to project way too much. I am struggling to live in the moment and am getting better at that. I'm not certain what the future holds for me, but can't worry about it and allow that worry to suck the joy out of today. Maybe you have too many birds, and maybe you don't. Now is not the time to make that decision. You know what Scarlet O'Hara said in "Gone with the Wind". "I'll think about that tomorrow." For today take M & M's advice - 11/12th self care.
. But after lecturing you
I figured I better practice what I preach 


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She wants to have a dress for tea date