Holy Moley, Kabootar! I guess that adds a whole different perspective to Covid!
I can understand that it would be hard to have a sense of actual numbers beyond "many people" without the record keeping and technology we're all so familiar with.
So are your elderly relatives more philosophical about this?
PS: It's so wonderful to get perspectives from the Netherlands and Britain and India and Russia and Spain to temper our own US-centric views.
I have three surviving old people in my immediate family my great-grandmother, my maternal grandmother and my paternal grandmother. They are barely literate, my great grandmother doesn't care about living anymore after she outlived her husband, her younger brothers and sisters and her only son. She complaints about living. Both my grandmothers have also lost their husbands.
My maternal grandmother lost her son and husband long before I was born. Her son died of meningitis and her husband disappeared during the emergency never to be heard again.
My paternal grandfather was a very strong man. He was an engineer, he served in the Indian Navy and then in the shipping company Maersk and Cosco. He earned lots of money, he traveled around the world. He bought a lot of land in the village, he sent both his sons to college. He retired in 2006, he returned straight back to his village, raised chickens and buffaloes, brought a tractor. He could have lived in Mumbai or Delhi, but he didn't.
He was diagnosed with heart condition in 2015, but he refused to go through surgery, he said "I have married, raised my children, served my country, seen the world, why should I live anymore? To see all that disappear?". He died in September, 2015.
My paternal grandmother says that women have weak bodies and they are faint hearted yet death doesn't come to them easily. I grew up surrounded by my grandparents. I am emotionally very attached to them. They don't care if they die, my great-grandmother says that it's better if she does. But I don't want to lose them.