I see. The entire SPLC and news reports from various people all over the nation are "my friends".

I must be WAY more popular than I thought! I bet I could "borrow" a whole lot of money with how many friends I suddenly have.

Oh no. How many cookies am I going to have to bake for them all now?

XD
I jest. But jokes aside. The point isn't whether or not YOU care about race. The point is whether or not those races/genders/whatever have to deal with the people who DO care about race/etc. enough to treat them badly. And they do.
Like if someone was like "I hate toes!" and then stomped on my toes, and I was like "Can you believe this guy stomped on my toes and says he hates toes? That's awful! Like what does that even mean?"; Then you say "Well he's a jerk. But don't worry I don't even see your toes." Like??? How does that help??? How is that not just ignoring the fact that I just told you something about my toes? Saying you don't see my toes doesn't help the fact that someone else just did something bad to me because of them. Clearly other people see them.
It's technically better than hostility. But it's way more negative peace (the absence of hostility) than positive peace (actual good will).