Today my team for the Battle of the Books went to our district competition and all 7 of them are in the Kid's Club, and all 7 of the sat quietly on the bus full of rowdy, rude students from other schools and worked on the crochet project,, including the boys! The other teacher/sponsors asked me how on "God's Green Earth" as one put it did I get my team to be so quiet and polite. They were that way throughout the competition, at lunch, on the bus, during the awards,, etc. I just told them that your students reflect how you treat them. I respect my students and in return they respect me. They would not be caught dead acting like those others were in public. One of the boys finished a neck scarf he was working on and was showing it to me during the lunch break and another teacher asked him if his mom made it and he told her that no he had just finished it. She bought it from him for $20, it was out of yarn he purchased himself so I told him that it was fine if he sold it. I had to laugh because he got so happy and the first thing he said was now he could afford to get that fancy curly soft yarn for the scarf for his mom!! So now I'm trying to explain to them that yes they can set up a club for their kids and it's possible to find donors, I gave them the Donorschoose site to help out.
The biggest thing that impressed me though, was on the way back a couple of boys that were real yucks on the bus on the way there sat with some of my students and were trying to learn to crochet!