I have two boys, who have grown into men. But they live in FL, so no help there.I get the staff to help load my cart and accompany me to the truck. I have all the feed put in the backseat of my truck so it doesn't get wet if it rains.
I have hired a "Yard Girl" that works when I call her. She mows the grass, weed eats, works in my chicken coop when I need help, she moves the feed from my truck to the screen room, and she opens the bags and fills my containers. If I need her to do anything she will do it. She dug a trench for my husband for electric lines.
I don't know what we would without her.