Did I just screw up?? (very long)

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You know, right or wrong, it is done. And I am a faithful person, and believe all things are for a reason. I don't know you, but having been a single mother, remarried now, but I have always told my children, if the day came I could no longer take proper care of you, I will give you to your father. Sometimes the best thing a mother can do is let go of her children. I commend your decision for that time in your life, it is not one any of us want to make. But better you let them go then keep them on the streets. Please remember, it is NO ONE's place to judge you, only the Father will judge you when it is time. As far as your son goes- what is meant to be will be in its own time. Take faith that the Father is working for you, and for your sons, and all will be fulfilled in his time.

God Bless sweetie, and stand strong.

Barb
 
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Maybe he dosen't sign on Facebook frequently? That could be why he hasn't replied. I don't know though, just a thought. Good luck!
 
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not all adoptions are open ones, meaning all the info is known by both parties.

Thanks for clarifying that, Boyd.
 
Nothing yet, I'm hoping that just means that he doesn't sign on to facebook very often, and not that he doesn't want to add me
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Hopefully, with the weekend coming, I'll get a response
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I'm 32, and I almost didn't add my Mom.... and we have a good relationship.

Our friends can post words or pictures on our pages that we may not want parents to see. I know a lot of foul-mouthed ladies, and I go out drinking frequently where people are taking photos (Mardi Gras is the worst for this). I tend to post fairly colorful status updates. I've avoided my "in-laws" for precisely this reason, as my Mom knows me, but my partner's parents and I have a difficult relationship, and they're far more likely to misinterpret these things.

So don't take it personally if you're not added as a friend.
 
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I feel in my heart that he will add you. He just needs time for it to sink in and figure out what he wants to say. He probably just doesn't know where to start.
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I feel in my heart that he will add you. He just needs time for it to sink in and figure out what he wants to say. He probably just doesn't know where to start.
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I hope you're right! I just keep thinking about how he has his name on there. No one uses their complete full name, plus with his birth name as well, it really makes me think that he wanted to be found. Of course I know his adopted name, but he was only 7, so maybe he didn't know if I knew it.
 

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