I've never been one to talk to friends and family on the phone, just don't care for it. So if one of them calls me and leaves a message, I do call back, but always leave a message if voice mail picks up. I agree with an earlier post, once I've returned a call and have had to leave a message, I'm done, and I can forget about it. Ball is in their court. However, in my experiences, many business do not call you back in a timely manner when messages are left, so no,I do not leave messages with businesses...if
I'm inquiring about something. I want a real person to answer my question right then and there. If I am responding to a business, then yes, I will leave a message, as long as I don't have to leave any real personal info.
I will add, that one thing I cannot stand is someone that waits til the beep, then hangs up.
If you are going to wait that long, for goodness sake leave a stinkin' message. I hate when I've gone through the whole process of getting to my messages on voicemail; dial your number, enter your code, blah, blah, blah, to hear "click". My daughters' have friends that do this. Drives me nuts.
We have a rule for our girls. If you are calling a friend, and they are not home,you are allowed to leave ONE message. You can call a couple of times throughout the evening, but only one message. I've come home and have had 5 messages in a row from one of my daughters friends, half of them hangups, because she waited too long, and the infamous "click" was the message. So irritating!!