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[annageckos]

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While I do agree with you about the emotional affairs, it doesn't mean that is what is going on. I don't go onto facebook at all so I know nothing about how the setting work. But I would assume that the friends list is blocked off to everyone, if it blocked to one person. But just because it is hidden doesn't mean anything is up. I am a private person. I do not like anyone going through my stuff or reading what I write unless I give permission. When we (my bf and I) moved I didn't want any help packing or cleaning/going though my stuff. It was not because I had something to hide, it is just how I am. But if you are having a trust problem then you two need to sit down and talk and find out why.

 

[itsy]

If your wife "hid" her friends list through her facebook settings (and I'm assuming you as well have a facebook account) it's likely not just hiding it from YOU, but from everyone. When you do that on facebook, you usually make that a blanket setting so no one can view your friends list except for you.

I have that set up on mine to an extent so that the general public can't see who I'm friends with. This helps past known weirdos from knowing too much about me now!

She may have it set up to be even more strict. My point is - you may be assuming that it's just YOU who can't see them, when it's really set up for EVERYONE not to see them and you just got lumped into that because that's the way those settings work.

 

[EmtheFishLady]

Personally, I am a private person by nature. I don't have my friends list available for anyone to see. If my significant other asked, I'd be happy to show him, but I know he won't because he trusts me. Personally it offends me if someone accuses me of hiding something that I wouldn't consider any of their business anyway. It would hurt my feelings if I couldn't have anything private without my motives being questioned. Seems to me there's probably more issues than a Facebook friends list.

 

[Kevin565]

As previously stated she's not hiding it from you she's hiding it from everyone. Even though i have 3k+ friends I still prefer to keep my friend list private.

 

[cameron]

Beware my friend. Facebook is Satan's greatest accomplishment. It's how my ex met her new boyfriend. She juggled us for about a year before deciding he was the better catch.

Jokes on her tho, cause he didn't leave his wife like he promised her he would! Haha!

 

[Charon]

i am not sure what to say but wow thanks guys who knew a chicken forum had so many people with such great insight. i would say other things related to this post but i am also trying to sell chickens on the auction site. the whole reason i joined. and if i say more things and someone meets me to buy chickens then knows these things it would be uncomfortable for me.

 

[itsy]

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I understand that and we certainly don't want you to be uncomfy! But - it does appear that there's more than meets the eye and that it may not just be fb that you're worried about. Perhaps a nice long, calm talk is in order? Good luck!!!

 

[Chickerdoodle13]

I hid my friends list as well. It is probably nothing personal. I just don't like people being able to find others on my friends list. If you were really curious, I would just try asking her to let you see her friends list.

 

[Criskin]

Hiding her friends list on FB isn't a big deal. If she knows that it really upsets you and still wants to hide it without a good reason, however, I think you have a problem.

 

[La Mike]

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X2.

(Hey Mike, what part of Louisiana are you in? I lived just outside of Baton Rouge for 3 years from 2003-2006.)

Haughton just outside Shreveport