dont feel bad ( not that you do) hehee but i have a horrid bladder. when i had my hysterectomy the dr. tried to repair my bladder but t didnt work out so well. scar tissue gives me very bad bladder cramps . feels like contractions. I always seem to have kidney stones and sometimes it comes a gushing with no warning at all. no urge to go at all then there it is. its worse then the IBS.! like the time i was in wal-mart and pooped every where. hahahaaa that one i wont forget. ruined my pants, shirt, walls, floor. I stripped down and because no one else was in there walked out to the sinks to get paper. hoping my family would finally get worried and come check on me because i wasnt putting them clothes back on. so there i stand, buck naked, covered in poo and some little old lady walks in. She looks at me and says, "oh my" and turns around and walks out... hahahaaaa finally a worker comes in. I had her go get me some wipes and new clothes. She gave me the wipes they clean the walls with ! OMG my butt was on fire ! So anyway with my new clothes on and some friendly advise from the worker to "go see the dr." out i come. My husband looks at me and says,"Geez, I thought you might of fallen in . I was about to get some one to check on you. "