@rancher hicks We are all aware of the definition of the word modesty. If you cant stand to watch tv commercials with Kotex or condoms in it may i suggest you turn your Television off at dinner time? I pee my pants. I dont care who knows it ! I am an honest person. This is another aspect of my life . as a person with dementia this is just one reason i started this post, as a reminder to myself . along the way i have met some awesome people and a few life long friends. You have a different way of life then I do. I dont appreciate your requests. I will say what i want within limits of this forum. which, by the way is how i speak every day and you have NO right to judge me or anyone else on my post. REQUEST DENIED Have a good day sir.