grannys gone and done it

[Dannachic]

Dinner was awful, everyone is gone and now i am bored.

My sister, Seems odd to write of her in the past-tense. She was 2 yrs. my senior. Out of 6 daughters she was the only one I really grew up with. the others were older and leaving home early. We spent most of our adult years together as well. She was my best friend and she was a drug addict. simple stuff really, til our father died anyway. then she turned to harder stuff and tried to OD. She called 911 herself and they got her straight but something was different about her. You know when your talking to someone for a while before it dawns on you something is just not right ? that was her. So my Mom took her to Fl. and she met a man there. She was clean except for drinking once in a while. Her new husband was something else though. He was a dog. He put his hands on her one too many times and she had him locked away. By this time Mom is living with me here and my sister had sisters there but they were very wrapped up in their own lives.
She came to visit me once and we had grand plans. We would spend our days together in rocking chairs. I half raised her children and they loved me like a second mom. She loved mine just the same. One weekend I was terribly restless and had what was explained to me a lucid dream. I saw my sister come floating down to me with outstretched arms crying and half the skin on her body was gone. I kept screaming and trying to wake myself but i couldnt. I could actually hear Tom in the background yelling at me to wake up. I finally was able to sit up in the bed but i couldnt breath. Tom kept shaking me and i was turning blue i guess. He shook me and i got my air. It was a very upsetting thing. I got dressed and took Tom to the dr. he had an appt. He was very sick and they admitted him to the hospital. I came home by myself and as I got to the driveway I could hear my mother making this noise i hope i never hear again. A wailing noise i guess. She was on the phone so I took it from her. Sister was on the other end. My mom had tried calling my sister and a woman answered the phone .. She said, If you want to know where your daughter is call the morgue. So she called her other daughter and it was true. My beautiful Kim was gone. Her husband had been released that very night. They found her on (i think) hw50 or springhill drive . thrown from a vehicle and dragged so many feet that all the skin on one side of her body was gone. She was still alive when she was thrown out but died from being run over. We flew her body here for burial. I did ask the funeral director what she was like. I explained my dream to him and he started crying. He said that is exactly how she was right down to it being her left side. My mother tried every thing she could before she left this world to get justice for her daughter but it was not to be. we all tried. Nothing was ever done. I ended up in therapy for well over a year with the diagnosis of PTSD. This happened in 2008 she was 47 years old. 2 years later her first grandchild was born.

So there it is.. My beautiful Kim,
I still miss you.

o granny i'm so sorry..your dream was a vision..not many have those..why wasn't he locked up or worse..

 

[Suzierd]

Dinner was awful, everyone is gone and now i am bored.

My sister, Seems odd to write of her in the past-tense. She was 2 yrs. my senior.  Out of 6 daughters she was the only one I really grew up with. the others were older and leaving home early.  We spent most of our adult years together as well.  She was my best friend and she was a drug addict.  simple stuff really, til our father died anyway. then she turned to harder stuff and tried to OD. She called 911 herself and they got her straight but something was different about her.  You know when your talking to someone for a while before it dawns on you something is just not right ?  that was her. So my Mom took her to Fl. and she met a man there. She was clean except for drinking once in a while. Her new husband was something else though. He was a dog.  He put his hands on her one too many times and she had him locked away. By this time Mom is living with me here and my sister had sisters there but they were very wrapped up in their own lives.
She came to visit me once and we had grand plans. We would spend our days together in rocking chairs. I half raised her children and they loved me like a second mom.  She loved mine just the same.  One weekend I was terribly restless and had what was explained to me a lucid dream. I saw my sister come floating down to me with outstretched  arms crying and half the skin on her body was gone. I kept screaming and trying to wake myself but i couldnt. I could actually hear Tom in the background yelling at me to wake up. I finally was able to sit up in the bed but i couldnt breath. Tom kept shaking me and i was turning blue i guess.  He shook me and i got my air. It was a very upsetting thing. I got dressed and took Tom to the dr. he had an appt. He was very sick and they admitted him to the hospital. I came home by myself and as I got to the driveway I could hear my mother making this noise i hope i never hear again. A wailing noise i guess.  She was on the phone so I took it from her. Sister was on the other end.  My mom had tried calling my sister and a woman answered the phone .. She said, If you want to know where your daughter is call the morgue.  So she called her other daughter and it was true. My beautiful Kim was gone.   Her husband had been released that very night. They found her on (i think) hw50 or springhill drive . thrown from a vehicle and dragged  so many feet that all the skin on one side of her body was gone.  She was still alive when she was thrown out but died from being run over.  We flew her body here for burial. I did ask the funeral director what she was like. I explained my dream to him and he started crying. He said that is exactly how she was right down to it being her left side. My mother tried every thing she could before she left this world to get justice for her daughter but it was not to be.  we all tried.  Nothing was ever done.  I ended up in therapy for well over a year with the diagnosis of PTSD.  This happened in 2008 she was 47 years old. 2 years later her first grandchild was born. 

 So there it is.. My beautiful Kim,
     I still miss you.

Wow, so sorry about your Sister. She must have been visiting you in that dream. Hate that justice was not done.

 

[Yorkshire Coop]

@granny hatchet I'm so sorry about your sister That truly is an horrific event for you and your family to go through. I'm so pleased you have made it to the other side with some therapy and help to get over this most dreadful event. I find getting things off your chest really does work. Truly a vision her visiting you in your dream. Keep all those happy thoughts to the front of your mind always

 

[Yorkshire Coop]

@XxMingirlxX

Congrats on your new birds Your little polish looks just like one of mine!!

 

[Granny Hatchet]

Thank you all.

My mother had those dreams. I told her I didnt want what she had. Too much for me and so far it has only been twice. Family was a bit scared of her dreams. they would tell her, Dont dream about me ! LOL
I got part of the yard mowed and started having chest pains too. A lot of bouncing around maybe. neck hurts too. Had plans of hot dogs today and DH just informed me after 20 odd yrs. he dont like hot dogs. He rather an egg sandwich. (sigh) I am going to make the biggest mess possible . Yes, even frying an egg is cooking !

 

[Wishing4Wings]

Granny, I think those unexplainable things like dreams or visitations or whatever they are, happen a lot more than we notice. I was working full time and going to school, and with other things, was feeling kind of overwhelmed. I talked to one instructor about me skipping some busy-work assignments she gave (to make sure the undergrads did their reading) because I had enough time to read, but not to do the outlines. She was fine with that, but in the middle of talking to her, I broke into tears (how mortifying) and found myself explaining that my grandpa was in very bad shape. For me to ask for special treatment, share personal family stuff, and CRY in front of a virtual stranger was very out of character. Turns out Grandpa had died at the time I was talking to her. He also chose his moment. Comatose, he waited all day for my uncle to drive up from southern California, but as soon as mom and my uncle (gramp's 2 kids) left the hospital room to get something to eat, he was gone. Guess no one in our family deals with drama very well. I figure he got out when he had some privacy, swooped down to San Francisco to say bye to me, and went on his way. Wish I could dream about my mom. It's been almost nine years and I still miss her.

 

[Granny Hatchet]

It happens wishing. I am glad your grandpa could say bye. You have to open yourself in order to hear.... It is strong in my family. My daughter swears she opened herself and something evil came in. Not to be taken lightly. As for myself, I want no part of it. I dont want these dreams but i cant say they are not real. I have seen to much.

 

[napdognewfie]

Not something to mess with!

 

[Granny Hatchet]

so far I have fried toms egg sammich , made myself an omlet w/ 2 eggs, cheese, tomato,and cubed ham. toast , butter,jelly,milk. Add them dishes up ! and robert is not up yet !

 

[Yorkshire Coop]

The dark side of things really does give me the shivers!! Not my thing pr something I would mess with. I do believe people or spirits or whatever you want to call them come back and visit I've had few odd things happen before. With no explanation I can think of.