Ok, I'm trying to be understanding here, but seriously... You have to do SOMETHING besides giving reasons for why you can't try different solutions. It is horrendously cruel to let the chick's toe basically rot off without trying everything possible to get the hair off. This is something that you have to deal with- if you can't handle causing small distress to get the hair, do you have a husband/boyfriend/parent/friend who can do it? If you're this squeamish about getting the hair off, I can tell you that you will not want to deal with a rotting, open mess where the toe was- not to mention keeping it clean. A infection in a toe that falls off can very easily kill your bird, and I know that would break your heart. I know you mean well, it is always hard to do things that we think will hurt our animals- but part of being an animal owner is doing what must be done to take care of your pet's wellbeing.