Boyd, Your healthiest bet to lose weight is portion control and eating only healthy food and at least walking(at this point) And drinking alot of water.
Eat only serving size portions, and eat several small meals a day (6)
For example, this is what I ate yesterday:
Breakfast, grapenuts.. serving size is 1/2 cup. I eat that with rasins and no milk (I can't drink milk). If you drink milk, only non-fat.
drink 24 oz of water.
I'll have a snack in a while of a couple handfuls of fruit (or veggies)
drink 24 oz of water
Lunch: a sandwich with the 100 calorie thin bread (I know, I just said no bread above) but at lunch I allow myself this bread and a slice of cheese with smoked turkey. I would say the sandwich would equal a cup of food (it's a small one!). You can eat a sandwich, open face so you cut bread by half, use pita bread pockets, or, wrap the sandwich in lettus (best bet)! And I have about 1-1/2 cup veggie salad, NO DRESSING!
I'll go for a 30 min fast walk after lunch
drink 24 oz of water
I'll have an orange for a snack. (or veggies)
drink 24 oz of water
Dinner, was 1 cup of home made goose goulash, no preservatives, no oil, no butter, but it did have pasta.
drink 24 oz of water
A snack before bed may be an apple (I didn't eat anything lastnight).
If I have time after chores, I walk another 30 min on the tread mill (sometimes it will include a slow jog) and work out with the bowflex.
I fit in about 7000-10,000 steps a day on average. I would recommend a good pedometer.
Muscle helps to burn fat, so building muscle is good, however it will add weight but it won't be unhealthy weight once the fat is gone.
A good slogan to live by: If man made it, don't eat it!
(unless you can your own food)
NO:
Caffine
salad dressing
Mayo
Butter
Fried food
Cream Cheese
creamer in coffee
Sugar
POP
Candy
beer, wine, etc
processed food!
no egg yolk
I am not needing to lose fat because I have a health risk like Boyd, so I'm a little more lax about some things. I'll have some bread or pasta, and even a bite of a candybar, but it's a very small portion. But, since I've started cutting out things and really watching what I eat, I take in about 400-700 calories a day. To maintain my current weight I need 1956 calories. So you can see where I'm losing weight, slow and steady which is the healthiest way to lose and keep it off. With all the water and small meals, I actually feel full enough I've not been craving my nemisis of pop and candy! I started my diet last week I was 143, I want to hit 125 by end of June.
According to the plan, I'm right on schedule and down to 139# today. I can take in 956 calories a day.
I've referenced this site alot to manage my calories:
http://www.calorieking.com/ (you don't have to join to use it.)
The best way is to eat the healthiest, lowest calorie food, in small servings unless it's raw fruit n veggies.. you can eat alot of that as long as you don't use dressing, dips etc to eat it!! Water helps keep you feeling full and moving things along!!
Good luck Boyd!!