husbands sister needs to go rant

[redhen]

Why not just call the police and have them removed from your property?

 

[mikensara]

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To do this would really create many more of an issue than remedy the problem. I did today apply for a job that looks promising and am praying with everything i have that i do get this job. I will be saving up to get an apartment which will be an adjustment going from having money and then no money once i pay bills which will likely be the necessary ones like elec, rent, food, and gas. Probably have no money for the luxuries in life like internet and tv but the satisifaction of working hard will see me through.

 

[sourland]

Good luck on getting the job!!!

 

[redhen]

Good luck!!! I hope everything works out for you...

 

[Sonoran Silkies]

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Well stated.

 

[Sonoran Silkies]

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Very odd statement. I assume the house is owned in both yours and your husband's name, as is usual? Doesn't matter if you are earning a paycheck or not, the effort you put into your family (you, dh, and children) and your home is a significant contribution.

 

[Sonoran Silkies]

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Liking this idea.

 

[Sonoran Silkies]

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Toss anything of theirs that they leave lying around in the trash. Give them one more warning that they are expected to pick up after themselves and not litter the house with garbage. (That statement is the warning that it will go in the trash can--I would not say that that is what you will do, but it is an obvious repercussion--in retrospect--which will get more of their atention.) Keep tossing out any food that has been eaten directly from the can/jar/whatever--that is simply disgusting.

I'm not sure that all diabetes is as well controlled as this poster suggests (I know that my asthma is not always well controlled, and I do take my meds on schedule), but it should not be a constant issue. And seeing nothing wrong with continuing to use foods that have been eaten directly from shows that it is not the diabetes she is concerned with, it is her sense of entitlement.

 

[onthespot]

How's it going so far? Hope your weekend is better.

 

[Mattemma]

Glad you have a place to unload. I find that people feel better once they have let it all out,so I often encourage family and friends to tell me what is bothering them.Once they are done it is like that negative energy that consumed them is gone,but ofcourse then I am *wound* up,lol. I just go work it off and all is well.

In your case if I were in your sitaution I would not clean or do anything.My dh is a diabetic and he works hard every day.When he is home he does not use it as an excuse to make everyone around him his slave,or talk bad to us.

If my dh were choosing someone over me(and I was miserable) then I would seperate. Seriously, I would go live with a friend for a while and save for a place. No way would I stay another day in my home being miserable.Only have one life and would not want to waste it begging my dh to do the right thing. Hugs for you.

Sometimes family can act the worst. I know he wants to help his birth family,but he made a family and a home with you-that should come first now.


You know that saying that goes something like....
Give them a fish it feeds them for a night
Teach them to fish and they are fed for life

Dh needs to teach not give hand outs.He is not helping his loved ones.Hurting them and hurting you.Poor guy just wants everyone to be well I am sure.

Best wishes for all.