8am this morning, FIL showed up, UNEXPECTED, to pick up Hubby (I know he was going to pick hubby up today but not expecting him at the TIME!) to do some jobs somewhere in town for money. I was still in PJ, on the computer posting stuff on Craigslist and working on my webpage for AVON. I was a MESS because I JUST WOKE UP! The house wasn't a big deal, just had a mails and kids school stuff (fridays they bring home ALOT of papers. My Friend went ahead and gave me their backpacks after school yesterday) piled up on the coffee table, Hubby's shirt from last night was on the back of the couch, his socks with his shoes in front of the couch and we had a TV table out with our dinner dishes from last night (didn't have a chance to get to ALL of the dishes cuz Im still catching up on 2 days worth!). FIL had a fit! started yelling at me that the house was a FILTH. HUH? it wasn't a big deal! Something that can be picked up in less then 5 minutes and mind you, it's 8 in the MORNING! The day haven't really started for us yet! HUbby was still in BED! He kept going on about me being irresponsible and NEVER (yes he said NEVER) cleaning the house. I was like WTHECK?! I told him tha tthe house is always clean, just maybe we got a few things that need to be picked up in the morning. He then started yelling at me about the front yard and porch being a mess (Yes I agree with him, it's BAD! but that's hubby's job not MINE!) I told him that I forcus on the INSIDE of the house, I keep up with that and all. The outside he needs to yell at another person, NOT ME! Im busy with everything inside plus Im close to being due and everything outside is OFF LIMIT for me right now. He said I don't have any excuses, I SHOULD be the one to do BOTH inside and OUTSIDE! WTHECK! So...Im feeling like being evil right now. He is complaining about small things that need to be picked up inside...hhhhhmmmmmm..... I have the kids later around noon....I'm thinking of letting the kids really, and I mean REALLY make this house a mess just to make him MAD. But Im also thinking, do I really want to ruin my hard work all week of spotlessing the house? Darn, wish there was a way to really give him something to complain about.