If you had the opportunity.....would you? UPDATED!!!

[chickensioux]

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I did, he said it's not worth it.....

 

[pdsavage]

I would let it go,sometimes the closure is just letting it go.

 

[perolane]

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Good advice. After all, he suffered along with you in the beginning.

 

[Britney]

I wouldn't give him the satisfaction. Leave sleeping dogs lie.

 

[ChooksinChoppers]

DH is right..not worth it
He is not worth the time it would take for you to type the words....He is not worth the time it takes for the thoughts in your head to say what you think....totally not worth anything (lowlife) Delete him and forget him

 

[Wisher1000]

You will get the closure you need when you forgive him. You don't have to forget or be okay with what he did but you must release the grudge and let it go. The opposite of love is not hate, it is indifference. When he no longer makes you angry, he will be out of your life. Don't worry about him, take care of you and that new hubby of yours...

 

[gritsar]

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Agreed.

 

[sonjab314]

(First of all do not listen to me. I have PTSD and get mad easily but I have learned to controlit......for the most part

) I think if it will bring you closure, you should do it. It is not about what anyone else thinks. If YOU want to contact him then I would and tell him how bad he made you feel. If he has anything bad to say back....drive to his house and deliver some long awaited justice

(thats the part you are supposed to ignore)

 

[heatherindeskies]

Without attacking him because your anger will show him he still affects you and he is still crossing your mind from time to time, could you use FB as a tool to let him know how you moved on, how much you have changed and grown, how awesome your current man is, how different and respectful currrent man treats you all achieved WITHOUT EX????

 

[Matthew3590]

I wouldn't do it. Past is the past and let it stay that way.