well, I'm sure you know where that one went: "If you had listened to me and NOT mowed the lawn.....@%@$@%@!" and so on.
This is not a personnal attack on you but ladies please answer a question for me. When you want to argue about something as mundane as cutting the grass, what makes you think we (husbands) want to talk to you about anything? People do their best to avoid conflicts, if they don't they need help. So want your husbands to talk to you, stop complaining. Before you open the conversation ask yourselves, would this be considered complaining by a rational person.