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I really don't know what to say besides that I wouldn't be trying to build a house there in the situation that you are in. I feel that they are using you, and in the end they are going to kick you out. I would save my money, because I'd need it later to restart my life over.
Aye... if only we had known before we bought the (non-refundable/returnable) house! I’m teetering on the edge as it is, but we jumped in with both feet, not realizing the pool wasn’t actually full. If I had realized it was going to be so difficult I would have just bout one or two double-wide mobile homes and joined them with a roofed deck!
Hi Kris, what drama. You've had to deal with so much and now this. I have a suggestion that might be feasible. Although I'm not well versed in property laws but it's a thought. Who owns the entire property? If your FIL is not the sole owner, which I'm kind of getting he isn't, then try to come to a legally binding agreement with the majority owner to lease the land you are building on along with right to use a predetermined parcel for your farming activities. What ever the outcome of any of the arbitration, push to get something in writing that protects you and your investment. I'm not sure if this is helpful, but like I said before, it's a thought.
That’s sort of what I was thinking, and plan on asking Andrew’s cousin what kind of actual legally binding assurances we can get. Pretty much all of Andrew’s fathers generation (3/4 of the owners) is uncommunicative, belligerent, hostile, or at best very passive aggressive. But “oh no! We would never kick you off the farm” doesn’t quite cut it for me anymore.
Been there, done that, didn’t speak to my father for a little over three years, a year for each week I spent on the streets before I could secure housing when I moved back to the city with the assurance I could “stay in the basement for a month while I found work and an apartment”. I was kicked out 3 days after I arrived, “so he wouldn’t have to kick me out around Christmas” it was a very cold winter that year and the shelters were all full. once burned...
@Ribh thank you for your prayers and well wishes, I sincerely hope so as well. I’m very stubborn so I plan on sticking this out if there is even a glimmer of hope for a future here. stubborn and a little crazy too I suppose!
Today’s accomplishments include adding hardware cloth to the bottom half of our screen door so we can improve airflow and still keep the indoor cats indoors. It’s good for far more than just chickens! We also stripped the supports for the rebar from the perimeter footings, the wires and wood to float the rebar at the right height and hold it in place until the concrete is poured into the form. Tomorrow morning we will get it off the square interior footings as well. It was almost two hours of work, we started at 5 pm in hopes of a breeze and less blazing sun.
before:
And after:
Exciting.... right??? Lol
Also, here’s my contender for smallest chicken egg from a giant chicken. With a quarter and whatever the 10 Aussie coin is called for size comparison! Just when I didn’t think they could be any smaller than the last two they gave me!