...There’s a LOT of conflicting information on BYC. I find it takes more reading to decide whose opinions are the ones to follow. Ditto YouTube, and most other sources online!
So true. I am starting to get into the philosophy of Permaculture, which has 12 principles but the first one is Observe and interact. In other words, you try something out, see if it works for you in your situation, and then make changes as necessary to improve your outcome. The advice you get from someone may have worked well for them in their situation, but if it does not work well for you, then you interact and change.
I find BYC, YouTube, etc... to be great sources of shared information. I tend to follow the advice of those who already agree with the way I am thinking. BUT, I appreciate all the advice because if my way does not work out, I will try a different approach. As long as you can accept the idea that change may be necessary and a good thing, every decision you make is less stressful because it's just a part of the ongoing process.