Evening all,
I lost my quotes which I gathered throughout the day, and I am too exhausted to try finding them again, (this seems to be a trend...) so all I can remember is,
Olive, I like what you said about parenting. I do not hit my kids, and I find that they are much better behaved than many children we encounter. I think it is because I take the time to explain to them
why I do not want them to do something, instead of simply threatening them, and depend more upon garnered respect than fear of pain. Sometimes it is very difficult
not to say, "because I said so", but I realize it is only to make it easier on me, and not treating them as human beings. Honestly, I don't want them to do anything because someone "said so", without understanding and making an intelligent decision. I was spanked, belted, and switched as a child, and phrases like, "Don't make me use the buckle end", "Stop crying or I'll
give you a reason to cry", and "Not that twig, it isn't supple enough", are burned into my memory, but I do not think it ever did anything to make me less naughty, it just made me sneakier, and gave me such fond memories of running circles around the couch, too scared to stop, scared of how much angrier my parent was getting.
Ok, now I have forgotten everything else I was going to say after that rambling, except that
HH lost a chicken to a hawk, and
. I'm sorry, I fear the day I have to experience that.
Oh yes, and
Sarah, I am too inexperienced to make any comment on your chicks, but I did want to say,
beautiful photographs! They are stunning, great job, what kind of camera do you have?
Well, I just finished building what is most probably the worst fence, and the worst gate ever seen by mankind. At least it is only for the month of quarantine, but @#%*! They don't look that hard! What a pain! And
chicken wire! No matter how hard I try to stretch that stuff, it always goes wobbly! Am I doing something wrong? It is so frustrating!
So frustrating, in fact, that I did have a few beers while trying to complete this task, which I admit now because I am afraid that by this time it may be obvious. I am just happy it is done now, though I got magnificently scraped up in the process. My poor "old" hens have been stuck in their run since Sunday, and they are definitely not happy. They normally free range. I am so glad I shall be able to let them out on the morrow.