My son and my daughter are in the army, my daughter is in Germany, where she had my first grand child, that I have yet to be able to hold, he will be one in May, my son is in Iraq, his wife had my first grand daughter, who I did get to hold, they came to visit for a week, my son had it off so he could get ready to ship out, so when his baby was four months old off he went, he will be there until she is one, yep he will miss the first year and I am sure she will not know him when he returns, does he earn his pay? hmmm I think thats a lot to give up for any amount of money, my daughter lucked out she only had to be away from her son for a month of warrior training, no phone ect. she is in the medical field. They both joined so that they could get an education, as I could not afford to send them, but I do think they are better because of it and I try not to feel sorry for them, it was their choice, they could have choose other things, but they at least deserve to be appreciated, and supported, so thank you to all of you who do. I am hopeing that my other two girls find a different way though. (shhh don't tell)