my husband left me

[KristyHall]

You're better off without him. Even though it hurts dearly, you're a strong person and you are doing what you think is best. (I agree with you too)

 

[spiritdance]

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Exactly. He's going to wake up one morning and realize his office trollop rips booming loud farts in public, drools green goo in her sleep, and has highly offensive body odor .... meanwhile, put a picture of both of them on a dartboard, draw warts and pox all over them, and let the darts fly!

 

[manybirds]

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Exactly. He's going to wake up one morning and realize his office trollop rips booming loud farts in public, drools green goo in her sleep, and has highly offensive body odor .... meanwhile, put a picture of both of them on a dartboard, draw warts and pox all over them, and let the darts fly!

uuummmm..... ew. that is gross.

 

[turney31]

Maddea said it best......Hot grits and cast iron skillet! JK Stand strong and

 

[laseterlass]

As soon as everything is finalized and the judge divides the debt........Drop all his information off at the nearest homeless shelter. His address, his S.S#, his d.l. # and never never forget his Birthdate.

I bet his G.F. wont like him so much without a credit rating.

 

[Elite Silkies]

I can tell by reading your words you are a very strong woman, and I know you will pull through this. You are much better than he is and deserve to have someone in your life that appreciates you.

 

[Freckle Face Farm]

 

[ladyride]

I am really sorry you are going through this.

Whether you take him back or not do 1 thing get those finances separated bank accounts , credit cards , utility bills . You don't want to be paying for trollops new stuff.

He needs to stand on his own feet, broke or not. Had 2 husbands empty the accounts on me & run up credit card bills with their new lady.
Take a long hard look do you really want to give up your home? If you can afford it don't this is your comfort zone, your critters will always love you you have poured alot of yourself into your home. Redecorate do things the way you wanted but maybe had to compromise about. But sometimes the home place is too hard to continue to live in because of memories, understand that one to.

Take some lessons in something you have always wanted to do be it skydiving,pottery,motorcycles, or just another language.

Learning & expanding yourself takes up brooding time.

Remember some men are just dogs sniffing after the next new thing.

You are a strong person & you have been wounded deeply but with time & friends you will recover & come out the other side a stronger better person.

Momma used to say that which does not kill us will make us stronger.
Oh yeah change the title of this thread like someone else said to I threw out the trash.

He is not worthy of you.

 

[eenie114]

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X2.

So sorry you're going through this.

 

[michickenwrangler]

So sorry.

What a jerk. And kudos to you for maintaining your calm. I never would have been able to do that. If he can't communicate his needs to you, then there would have been problems down the road eventually.

I'll keep you in my thoughts.

And I sympathize with the "lots of land and alone problem" since my boyfriend just went to go work out of state, I'm in the same pickle.

In the meantime, if you get a chance, do something you wouldn't normally be able to do with him just to treat yourself: mini-shopping spree, watch a chick-flick, go out to dinner with some gal friends, that sort of thing. Trust me, it will help.