My mom is dying *She's gone now **update*

[Big C]

Feel for you...
My Mom died 3 years ago Jan 3.
Several types of cancer all at once. My Sisters did one helluva job feeeding her and keeping her with us for 18 months passed what the drs/suregeons gave her after the initial diagnosis.
We all knew what was going to happen.
The last look into my Mom's eye's was when there was an emergency at her home that we all could not handle.
She knew that this was the time.
She looed at me without any words and I knew what she was saying. Take care of everone. I know you can do it.
That helps me cope to this day.

Just be there for her, that is the best you can do.

 

[JessaLynn]

Just try in be patient with her.I would always joke with my dad even though he couldn't talk to me.Keep everything as light hearted as you can even with all the confusion just answer her questions even if she doesn't make sence.

 

[WriterofWords]

I can't say anything that will make a difference or that hasn't been said, but you, your family, your mom and all involved are in my thoughts and prayers.

 

[vnploveschickens]

I am so sorry. Sending prayers for you and your family to find strength at your time of need.

 

[debilorrah]

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Here is what I believe, having witnessed my grandmother do that same thing. She is arguing with her angel. She may not be QUITE ready to go yet, and her Angel is comforting her, telling her it is ok. She is arguing with her Angel, telling her she wants to go back home. Any minute now you will find her at peace, with a smile, completely lucid. I am crying right now remembering my grandma! She was completely in control and then just left us. Her angel's name was Lorraine. I heard it clearly from her several times in the day before she died.

and a box of kleenex...

ETA: Maybe I should have PM's this.

My eyes are red. PM me anytime if you want to vent, pray, talk, scream, whatever.

 

[STEPHANIELAUREN]

ahww im so sorry

i lost my grandma yesterday who was like a mother to me she pretty much raised my sisters and i, we were so close and she was my hero. the only thing i can say is spend as much time with her as you can because they can unexpectedly just be gone

say to her everything you want because once shes gone youll never get another chance. ill pray for you and your mom

 

[tonini3059]

I lost my grandmother her mother two decembers ago and the same thing happened. She wanted her coat on because Richard was coming to take her. My grandfather did have a friend Richard, but he loived in Wyoming, states away. and she would chant Richard...DEA Richard DEA, he used to work for the DEA..it was weird and she would do weird things also...that is what is so upsetting I remember my mom crying and saying how she was never going to have a mother again and no more Mother's days to celebrate with her no more phone calls and no more hearing her mom's voice...That is all I can think about now just all those things she told me when her mother passed. Also last thurdsday among many other days she kept saying that we have to play the cards we are dealt and that people die everyday some younger some in accidents it is just a way or life and to look at our friend(he was more of a brother) John Reho (he was 30 and killed in a car accident exactly one month after my grandmother passed, then my great grandmother who was 104 died a month and one day after him) Who was killed by a drunk driver he never had a chance to live and little babies die without a chance

 

[peepsnbunnies]

You are ALL in my thoughts and PRAYERS !!

Lisa

 

[Rainstorm]

I understand what you are going through.. I lost my mom 2 1/2 years ago and she was doing the exact same thing just a few days before.
She had pancreatitis or something like that, ammonia, and a couple other things they had mentioned all at once, all that and the hospital had her in a regular room instead of ICU, and wouldnt and didnt tell us what was wrong with her till she was gone.
Truth be told our hospital is nothing but a big bandaid box

 

[redhen]

I am so sorry.

I wish that i could help your pain in some way.. in anyway. Please know that we do care and are here for you.