My sister died friday. I just need to talk

[oldchickenlady]

I buried my 91 year old dad 2 weeks ago...it hasn't really sunk in yet...I know he was old but I wasn't ready to lose him. He was sick only a short time, thankfully. His death was fast and my mom wasn't there to see it, and I am grateful for that. I do regret that I wasn't there with him. I am sooo sorry for your loss and your pain.

 

[chickeypoo]

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i do have to agree.. as much as it pains me to say.. it does suck and all the people telling you that it will be ok and she's in a better place will not make it any easier.. i just have to say.. that we are here for you. some of us have gone through it and others are still going through it and some haven't had to deal with the loss of a loved one.. but we are all here for you no matter what.

 

[BirdBrain]

Melissa, I am SO so sorry!!

 

[vickie2133]

I am so sorry for your loss. She isn't in pain anymore, and you did get that chance to say your goodbyes. I think it would have been much harder on you, if you hadn't made it there in time. God gave you that time, no matter what got in your way, you made it there. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. When you are ready to go back threw her things, maybe since they don't fit you, you can make something out of it to keep with you. Such as a lap blanket out of her favorite things, or such. My father was a preacher and had ties thru out the yrs, I am going to make a pillow or a tree skirt out of them. That way I can see them, and they are still useful, and it is more like a comfort for me still. Just a thought though, dont' attempt anything like that till you are ready. If you ever need to chat send me a message or something, I know what loss is.

 

[mommyofthreewithchicks]

I am so sorry for your loss.

 

[Bec]

I am so very sorry for the loss of your sister

 

[EweSheep]

I am so sorry!

 

[PepsNick]

Honey, I am so sorry! I know what it feels like.

times a billion! Remember there are 60 something thousand people on here that love you and are here for support!

 

[Ms.FuzzyButts]

Melissa, I am so very sorry. My heart breaks for you. I am only 35, but lost my brother 13 years ago and my mother passed away July 28th of this year from breast cancer. I feel like I ought to be able to give you some insight to help you work though your pain.. But I can't. The tears are streaming right now. So many points of your story matched what I went through with mom. Just know that Diania loved you very much, and that you loved her just as much, if not more!! You were both very blessed to have each other.

 

[bossynbella]

Thank you guys. When I started typing it was going to be a short little paragraph but then I just couldn't stop. I forgot to add that we took the dog that had been living with my sister. It is her daughter's dog a standard Poodle, but they had to give up there house so she could afford to go out there and had no place to keep him. He is a great dog, completely house trained and neutered, she said be sure to take care of Pee. Well I didn't. We brought him home Saturday and on Sunday I was outside doing chores and went into the garage to get a flake of hay for our mini pony, he followed me in, when I went out and closed the door he wasn't right there. I gave the hay to the pony, and went back thinking I had locked him in the garage. If only. Our beagle had somehow slipped her chain ( the hook was still there closed but she was gone, he must of followed her up back. We called and called, nothing. I figured he would follow her back. I wish I would of gone looking. Annie( the beagle) was back at 10 that night, Pee still hasn't come back. We have called all the vets around and the sheriff dept. We also notified our neighbor. I am just praying someone found him and doesn't want to give him back. We walked around in the bitter cold wind for two hours calling for him today and he didn't come. Poor dog has never even been outside at night, but he has been missing since 4:30pm on Sunday.
I'm so ready for the year to be over, I know its odd but i some how feel like if it will just turn 2011 bad things will stop happening. Its been an awful year and I am so ready for a new one.