I am so ticked right now. It is a good thing that my daughter is staying with a fellow soccer player tonight. If she was here I would ground her for the rest of her life!!! As she is gone and won't be home until tomorrow I will cool off and only ground her until she is 18. I have given her a fairly free roam of the computer. She is just about allowed to be on it when she wants as long as it isn't after her bed time and home work is complete. She was just about to the point that I was going to give her the password to her instant messanger again after she got grounded from it (10 months ago - I was making a point). However one of the biggest things that I have told her over and over is that she WILL NOT have a my space account. I don't like how it works and it is no place for 13-14 yr old girls. Especially with some of the sick SOB's that are out in this world. WELL GUESS WHAT I FOUND TODAY?!?!? She just happened to leave herself logged in to the computer when I got on to check the football scores and talk chicken. Not that realy mattered because I can back door into her acoount on the home computer whenever I want. So I checked the internet history / cookies to see what she had been looking at and discovered her new my space profile. So here is the question. Now what? I am made enough at the moment that I am thinking of sending her mother to get her even if it is 11:00 at night here. I thought I was giving "enough room to grow" but apparently it was only enough room to hang herself. I don't think it was to much to ask of her not to do it, yet she did it anyway. Do they even have a brain at this age? As far as I am concerned at this immediate point in time life is over as she knows it. THoughts? Suggestions? Opinions? Good place to buy restraining devices?