Gramma - hope you had a great day !
I do the exact same thing most of us do - I start the day after Thanksgiving by decorating a christmas tree and drinking hot chocolate ! I do this because it is a joyful part of our culture.
Then I mail out my christmas cards to friends who have moved far way - giving them a remembrance letter of the year and why I think of them. My household is too small for us to switch roles (which is a Saturnalia thing) but feasting and food and fellowship is the same. Saturnalia lasts for 2 weeks ! Plenty of drinking - which I go light on. So it is very nice that my DH and I always have christmas offIt is also a holiday for playing jokes on people ... but again, my household is too small to go all the way with that.
Saturnalia is a very ancient Roman Holiday - celebrated way before they even had Ceasar march to power ! Families exchanged gifts, spent time together, feasted, as it was a more rigid society - switching roles was greatly amusing .... and someone in the family was crowned King of Saturnalia in each family each year .... but again, my household is too small for that part of it. No work went on - and it was just a fun joyous time of year.
I really like the Saturnalia idea! As a nurse I always volunteer to work Christmas 'cos I don't have kids. In our house Christmas is a moveable feast - so maybe we should just call it Saturnalia!

