Why is it being selfish? It would be selfish if only you benefited from it. I quit my full time job when I had my second child. I picked up cleaning a few houses for some income. Do what is right for you and your family.
Believe me if I had my way, every mom who wanted to stay home would. We were not so lucking in the beginning but after three, there is no since in DW going out to work.
Funny that now that I'm retired, (sort of) she doesn't want me to go to work.



Anyhow Lynzii, you stay home and take care of those kids, without guilt. I always says what's the point of having kids and then paying someone else to raise them? I would have done things differently.