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When our youngest son was in about the 5th grade, he told me "Mom, I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I want Dad to help me with my math. He is a carpenter and he understands math." My feelings were hurt for a short while since I felt confident that I could handle 5th grade math, and then I realized "I don't have to do math anymore! Yeah!"
Carl usually helps him with his math, I was always really good in math, but through the years so much of this stuff I cant remember. I always have to reteach myself before I can help the kids, I always tell them show me where you are and what you are doing then give me your book for an hour then i can help you... Anyhow, Carl and i do math very differently but here lately everytime he help Brandon with his work the poor child get the same grade as if he had done it himself, and then he still doesnt understand it.. So the other night Carl was too tired to think straight and Brandon was working on multiplying and dividing fractions, so I got voted to help. My poor child didnt have a clue( and I firmly believe some people are not meant to teach math... It can be an easy or difficult subject depending if you understand it....This is my third child to have this teacher and everyone of them have struggled to understand what she is teaching them)..... Any way, I started working with him and within the first few he started to understand it enough to do it in his head without having the long process of writing all the steps out. His first paper didnt have the steps on it and he made a 98 on it(we forgot to put dogs at the end of a word problem answer).... His 2nd paper I helped him with was a 90something, and then his teacher marked of until it was a 49 for not showing his work... Now I dont care if she wants him to show his work or not, we can do it either way, but why 1 paper was fine and the next wrong is beyond me!
I will probably be the one helping him most of the time from now on since he is understanding it with me.... Like I told him it is not up to you to understand my way, it is up to me to teach it so that you understand it.