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This subject really got to me tonight.  Because we buried my mom this time last year.
There are times I wish she still here but then I think NO YOU DON"T.  She was in so much pain,I had to do everything for her and she got where she couldn't even talk.  I have a sister that lives near me but I took care of Mom around the clock.  The only time I had a few hours off was so they could carry off thousands of dollars worth of my dads tools.  But my mom didn't want them there, she even told hosip that.  She won't wake up for them either.  But I am glad I did it and someday you will be glad you did too.  You can't stop a person from smoking, you just have to love them anyway.
But you need a way to let off stream and we here for you to do that.  My weight loss group was there for me and I truly do not think I could have stayed sane without them.  I had four bosses,that would tell me how to take care of mom but were no help.  The two times I left Mom, she wasn't turned or changed.
Love her,smile when she driving you crazy,think of the good time when that happens because they are gone way to soon.