I met my hubby of 2 1/2 years on eharmony.com. We were "matched" within a week of me joining, he had been online for about 7 months with no luck. We communicated by email for about a month before I would give him my phone number. I had met my previous boyfriend in an aol chat room 10 yrs earlier, and I knew how easy it was to get emotionally connected to somebody over the phone, even if you haven't met them. Once we did start talking, we talked almost every evening for 1-2 hours. I lived in n. cal and he lived in Mesa, Az. We finally met 2 months after our first phone call, but I think it was mostly a formality for us both. We were both looking for a long term, serious relationship. We were engaged a month later, and married a year later. We both feel it was an arranged marriage, of sorts, arranged by God. We have our problems, like all couples, but we are doing just fine. Physical attraction is something that grows as you get closer, and love is more than a "feeling", its an action. The more you act on it, the more you will feel it. The problems come when you get that process reversed.