Quote: This is the key. There is a difference between hoarding & having a flock or breeding birds. Hoarders get in over their heads & can't handle the pets they have. If you have the means to care for them & make sure they ARE cared for, no matter how many you have, you can never be called a hoarder. You are just a "collector" then.
As for sis, ummmm...yup! I can't say anything though. I've jumped in before I should have myself, BUT never have I agreed to marry someone after only meeting them once. To me, people like that just don't live in this little place I like to call reality. There is no way to really know someone without spending LOTS of time in their presence. Even then, sometimes they can fool you for a while, but eventually it all comes out.