I'll be okay, granny. I did get a few sympathy PM's along with your nice comments. It's nice to know this website has such a sweet community. I've just been having a hard week, but I can get past it. Been thinking about getting a marker for where I buried poor Felix. Hard to believe how attached I could've gotten to such a sort lived little bird.
I'm so sorry to hear about your son's cat. I couldn't imagine losing mine. I raised her from a squirmy little kitten. Wasn't even weaned yet. I know a lot of people can think cats are mean or cold, but they can be just as loving and kind as any dog. The only difference is you have to earn their trust, whereas dogs will love anyone that feeds them. I hope he'll be okay. Seems like it's a bad week to be a pet in general. My sister lost one of her kittens, too.
What's your surgery for, granny? I hope it's nothing too serious!