I think we all have been married too long
My DH doesn't interfere any more and just comes running when I need a second pair of hands or need his strength on a heavy part of a build. I have pounds more patience than he does for projects or DIY assemblies so he's perfectly amenable to this arrangement - 18 years and counting!
You have almost 10 years on us... My husband is just starting to see that YES I did work construction for 7 YEARS before I meet him and I'm not going to cut my let off with the saw... One day he will figure it out..