Tomahawk
In the Brooder
While a rarely post critiques or comments in general, When I do so, it is NOT to degrade the person or to take away from their pride in a job well done. The whole purpose of this site is to exchange information, to share "best practices" and to help each other to improve in our animal husbandry skills and to help us all improve our personal and our animals health and well being.
If I have said anything that has been taken personally or as a slight, then I apologize profusely as that was and is never my intention. I'm not trying to hurt anyone's feelings either. Being that the person IS new... and apparently inexperienced with chickens and chicken keeping in general, I rightly or wrongly thought that a couple of constructive suggestions might be appreciated as it could save her from loss down the line. I could have said nothing (and someone else most probably would have) and had something bad happened, I'd feel bad that I hadn't warned the person that these things could happen, but could be easily avoided.
Sending someone you've never met or spoken to/with a PM to make suggestions about how they could improve, to me, sounds like a personal intrusion and I would (personally) be a little miffed if someone did that to me. Why wouldn't they place their comments out in the open forum for all to see? Were they so unsure how their input would be received that they were afraid to voice it in public? I would hope that people wouldn't be so thin skinned as to take suggestions as a personal affront. Just MHO. Now back to lurkdom...
Sometimes, correcting/advising someone publicly can be humiliating to them. Some have thicker skin than others.