Can someone please write a guide (or point me to it, of one exists already, I couldn't find one) that kinda explains that's its best to read a thread, or at least get the main gist of a long thread, before replying with advice/comments??
I've seen alot of threads lately where a bird is sick, later dies, and posts still get added with advice or even with "hoping it improves" type of replies. This causes the original poster to relive the tragedy and can be so sad.
I've also seen advice on hatching threads, long after the chick has hatched, etc.
This all seems like common sense to me, common courtesy, but it sure happens often, and drives me crazy! I just thought it would be nice to have a link to refer a person to, instead of typing out an explanation of what has already happened.
Thoughts anyone?
Oh, one other thing. Long threads like breed threads often get the same question asked hundreds of times. I realize this is unavoidable, as most people won't read thousands of posts. I've done it myself. But at least those threads are usually frequented by folks who love talking about their breed anyway, so it usually isn't as much of a problem. Jmho..
EDIT/UPDATE - After a bit of discussion, the following are some suggestions, links, etc that have come up:
It seems that many "help me" threads eventually get overwhelmed with off-topic banter. If you start a thread, you can control it. Feel free to tell posters that get off-topic that you prefer that it stay on-topic. Don't be rude about it, but there should be no harm in asking that "your" thread stay on the topic at hand. Especially if actual help is still needed. As a helper, please don't take offense if an OP calls you out on non-topic related posts!
A BYC thread/sticky on How to be a good BYC citizen:
https://www.backyardchickens.com/threads/how-to-be-a-good-byc-citizen.163975/
Some non-BYC basic forum etiquette links:
http://www.toptenreviews.com/services/articles/25-forum-posting-etiquette-tips/
https://www.netmanners.com/658/message-board-and-forum-etiquette/
** disclaimer - these are not all BYC guidelines, just basic courtesies, so please don't read them as BYC rules. **
I've seen alot of threads lately where a bird is sick, later dies, and posts still get added with advice or even with "hoping it improves" type of replies. This causes the original poster to relive the tragedy and can be so sad.
I've also seen advice on hatching threads, long after the chick has hatched, etc.
This all seems like common sense to me, common courtesy, but it sure happens often, and drives me crazy! I just thought it would be nice to have a link to refer a person to, instead of typing out an explanation of what has already happened.
Thoughts anyone?
Oh, one other thing. Long threads like breed threads often get the same question asked hundreds of times. I realize this is unavoidable, as most people won't read thousands of posts. I've done it myself. But at least those threads are usually frequented by folks who love talking about their breed anyway, so it usually isn't as much of a problem. Jmho..
EDIT/UPDATE - After a bit of discussion, the following are some suggestions, links, etc that have come up:
It seems that many "help me" threads eventually get overwhelmed with off-topic banter. If you start a thread, you can control it. Feel free to tell posters that get off-topic that you prefer that it stay on-topic. Don't be rude about it, but there should be no harm in asking that "your" thread stay on the topic at hand. Especially if actual help is still needed. As a helper, please don't take offense if an OP calls you out on non-topic related posts!
A BYC thread/sticky on How to be a good BYC citizen:
https://www.backyardchickens.com/threads/how-to-be-a-good-byc-citizen.163975/
Some non-BYC basic forum etiquette links:
http://www.toptenreviews.com/services/articles/25-forum-posting-etiquette-tips/
https://www.netmanners.com/658/message-board-and-forum-etiquette/
** disclaimer - these are not all BYC guidelines, just basic courtesies, so please don't read them as BYC rules. **
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